Conversation After Sex?

[zowie]

My girlfriends always want to start a conversation after sex. I feel like sleeping right after sex. The girls always try to keep you awake. I want to stay awake. But can't stay awake. And I do not want to piss off my chick right after giving it all to me.

How do you deal with this situation?

[Doc]

Have a coffee before bed or do it earlier in the day rather than late at night. Do it in the mornings or while you are watching TV or before or instead of dinner... mix it up.

Your interest may be kept if your post-coital conversation includes various degrees of sex-talk reviewing and extolling the act... praising her body or her techniques or what you particularly liked. Ask her what you could do differently or better.

Dirty talk plus fondling her pussy, clit or g-spot can be so stimulating that it can lead to another round soon thereafter. Most women can have multiple orgasms after a brief cool-down period so indulge her. It's hot to watch her come again and again even if you are not quite ready. The third or forth orgasms are typically much stronger than the first... they will rock her world. They may be hesitant at first since the clit is so sensitive after an orgasm (just like your cock) but they recover faster than you can if you just continue to stimulate around her clit - not right on it right away.

After the initial sensitivity is over, subsequent orgasms can be much faster and easier to achieve than the first.

If she is moaning, screaming and writhing around grabbing your dick, it will be hard to drop off to sleep. Let me know how it goes.

[loverboy]

Quite soon after the first orgasm, M is ready for round two. Initially I may feel drowsy but cos I know that my woman wants more, we'll be talking and saying how much we love each other and how good we felt while fucking. My fingers or mouth will never be out of her pussy. As I keep licking her clit she'll will cum again and it won't be too long before my cock wakes up and is ready for round two. Women try to keep us awake cos they are insatiable and capable of mulitiple orgasms. I've lost count of how many orgasms M has in one session. I'm lucky to have such a woman as my wife.

[loverboy]

Intimacy and conversation after sex is as important as dirty talk before and during sex. Going to sleep soon after sex is like telling your partner 'wham bam thank you maam.' There's gotta be romance thru and thru.

[rdatingman]

You just finished having great sex with your partner. The intercourse was very tensed and worth every lasting moment. So, what happens after you've finished having sex? Should you just lay there? My answer is, NO! Tell your lover how much you have enjoyed the sex. Tell her or him how cute they look. Heck, maybe tell your partner you'd love to go all the way again in the next few hours

How do you not fall a sleep after sex? My advice is to stay in shape; walk, jog, or even swim. I noticed that both eating right and exercising helps you build up stigma. This will help you live a better sex life.

[Doc]

One idea is to pet her sloppy wet pussy and have her play with your dripping cock... both organs are stil quite hot. Keep fooling around and in fifteen or twenty minutes, when you both are ready, do it again! Why stop with once?

[loverboy]

We do this all the time. I'll turn around and lie for awhile with my mouth covering her wet pussy and my cock near her mouth. After some time we'll be ready for round 2.

[DaddysLittleGirl]

Daddy always strokes my cheeks, kisses me and looks lovingly into my eyes while he brushes my bangs out of the way, telling me "My god, I love you so much, baby!" The deep kissing and petting that happens after that will almost always lead to something OTHER than sleep! Try focusing on her rather than turning your attention away or getting too comfortable. Also, try upping the physical ante with plenty of water and a high content B complex vitamin supplement every day for not only your energy level, but your "male stamina", as well!

[pranith]

Even my girl friend loves ot have conversation after sex. I never refursed her to have conversation. We mostly talk about the way we had sex, how did my partner satisfied , what she is expecting more from me. etc.

[loverboy]

[QUOTE=DaddysLittleGirl;669]Daddy always strokes my cheeks, kisses me and looks lovingly into my eyes while he brushes my bangs out of the way, telling me "My god, I love you so much, baby!" The deep kissing and petting that happens after that will almost always lead to something OTHER than sleep! Try focusing on her rather than turning your attention away or getting too comfortable. Also, try upping the physical ante with plenty of water and a high content B complex vitamin supplement every day for not only your energy level, but your "male stamina", as well![/QUOTE]

This kind of intimacy after sex is great. To each others eyes and expressing your love and conveys that you love body, soul and mind. Hugging and petting does wonders. I always cradle my M in my arms like a baby and she'll say 'papa, you are the best husband and best lover in the world' my reply will be 'sweetheart, you are the best wife and lover, I love you so much'.
Thanks for the tip about water and Vitamin B Complex. See you too are helping us.

[Doc]

I like to write up our escapades and text them to L the next day... it keeps the memories fresh and makes her want more.

[zowie]

That is a great idea. I never thought of that before. As I am a lot better at writing than talking I could do that better. And the next day I would be fully awake and not sleepy. I do try to keep a conversation for a little while after sex. But it never lasts as much as my girl wants. May be I need to work on my level of fitness. I am on the heavier side and this may be a reason behind my sleepyness right after sex.

[QUOTE=Doc;699]I like to write up our escapades and text them to L the next day... it keeps the memories fresh and makes her want more.[/QUOTE]

[Doc]

You may be right... in addition your belly fat can decrease your testosterone making you less virile. How many second rounds do you have? If not many, you are in for a pleasant surprise once you lose the weight/

[loverboy]

I make it a point to go for a brisk walk everyday and also workout for a while before hitting the shower. Diet control is also essential. Wherever possible I avoid using the elevator and climb stairs instead which by itself is a good way to exercise. M does the same and as a result both of us are slim and trim.
Zowie I'd advise you to work on your fitness cos once you discpline yourself to do this you'll have many a pleasant surprise when it comes to sex.

[Doc]

Be sure to check your thyroid, testosterone and DHEA levels with blood tests your doctor can order... men and women need testosterone.

If it is on the low side, men and women may benefit from supplements (lozenges, AndroGel, creams. etc.)

When your testosterone is low, you your libido decreases dramatically. When it's high, you both will want to fuck like rabbits.